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Let's talk old school for a bit.
It used to be that a 'blind date' came about by a simple conversation. Someone you know (preferably) came up to you, sensing for better or worse that you were basically dateless, and said, "You know, I have this friend you HAVE to meet. You two would LOOOVE each other." dating.com scam Usually this would-be matchmaker was female, as it has always seemed to me that women love to take on that role (e.g. find me an "It's Just Lunch" franchise with a male director).
If you were like me, being the willing accomplices such that we were, you'd tend to go, "Uh...sure...why not? What do I have to lose?" Now, considering most of us guys are all about spending large sums of cash securing first dates that "impress women" with how artificial and awkward they are you actually had PLENTY to lose. But whatever...that was beside dating.com review the point.
So you went on the date. And your brain would start to mess with you...hard. We're talking fried circuits.
I'll elaborate more on that in a minute.
First, however, let's teleport back into the present. If you are like millions of others scattered across the four corners of the virtual landscape, you've discovered the masterpiece that is "online dating". You know by now that we're huge believers in online dating dating.com scam around here, and hope you are too. (If not, Skype me at "scotmckay". We have ways of replicating that mindset.)
This, then, naturally means that "blind dates" have become a multi-billion dollar industry. No longer is this all limited to your Aunt Gertrude setting you up with her bridge partner's brace-faced niece. Not really. This is the 21st century, boys and girls.
And come on, let's get down to it: When you meet someone you met on an online dating site for the first time, it really is a blind date.
Profile narratives? Telephone conversations? IM? Even pictures? All essentially meaningless in the real world much of the time. When that person darkens the door to Starbucks you might dating.com review very well be darkened also. Or else you'll light up. Or...your brain will start to mess with you, like I said. After all, it's a blind date.
So what do I mean?
As much as most guys have issues with approaching women, there is one undeniable factor involved there that can bring a lot of clarity to a man's life if he lets it. When you approach women YOU are FULLY AWARE of who's doing it for you and who isn't. If you walk up to the most attractive woman in the place, verify that she's a high-quality woman--and she's digging your chili--then you KNOW THE SCORE. Way to deserve what you want. dating.com scam If you go through 20 or 30 women before one actually will hang out with you, you also KNOW THE SCORE. You are SETTLING.
On a blind date, that's all off the table and you get no such frame of reference, really. You have not chosen someone from a field of many. You simply have a certain person in front of you...RIGHT HERE. RIGHT NOW. You are actually on a real, live DATE with this person. The "heavy lifting" of getting to that step has been done for you.
And that's where "lazy" goes "crazy". And the longer it has been since you've been on a quality date, the more hallucinatory the trip gets.
One of the key hallmarks of a wildly successful dating life is that you are comfortable weeding out people who do not meet your exacting standards. This is not a matter of snobbery, it's a matter of necessity when you have options. Simply put, relationships that are not exactly dating.com review platonic are not exactly the place for philanthropy. If you want to save the world, team up with the greatest person you've ever met when that happens and save the world together. When you are talking about something as mission-critical as having the right MOTOS in your life, then charity cases need not apply.
But until we get to that place...the Wildly Successful Dating Place...we often let certain insidious factors creep to the top of our list when deciding who we're going to date and/or talk ourselves into being attractive to. These factors are (in order), 1) "This person actually finds me attractive, therefore I'm attracted", 2) "This person is actually available, therefore I'm available", and 3) "We're already on a date, so the convenience of this set up sure beats having to go out and dredge up someone else".
Last week we talked about being "clouded by beauty vision". Now we're talking about being flat-out "blinded by blind dates".
No joke.
Seriously, here's where the rubber meets the road: If you had seen this person you are on a date with out in public prior to being set up on a date together, would you have even TAKEN NOTICE? Here's the crazy part...often, if you have the guts to ask yourself that question on a first date with someone you met online (or who the admin over in Accounting recommended, for that matter) you have to answer, "You know, I DON'T KNOW."
It's true. Sometimes your brain plays tricks on you to the point where you simply can't separate where the "butterflies" of being on an actual date with someone end and real, natural attraction starts. So yeah, you go on a second date, and you may even be excited about it. But your brain is flipped out over this. What is REAL here